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GENTS SEX MATTER FAQ

  I am a 20 year old man and have had sex once in my life. I have been close to having sex many times. The first time I wasn't able to gain an erection because I was nervous. I have no trouble getting an erection by myself and now every time I go to have sex I am worried that I won't be able to get an erection. I have a girlfriend now and have talked about it a little but still feel uncomfortable. I have seen a counsellor but I still worry about it. Is there something wrong with me physically or mentally or what? Please help!!!!!! I have had enough of embarrassing moments please help me!   After I cum, (usually after about 10 minutes) I seem to have a slow "leaking" of semenal fluid from my penis. Is this normal?   After having sex with my girlfriend, I have some problems getting the foreskin of my penis to go back. I usually need to push it back manually. At first it took me quite a while but recently it has been quicker for me to do this. Is this normal? Is the

FEMALE SEX MATTERS FAQ

  A doctor has told me that I have thrush. I am being treated for this but I'm worried as I have always had a discharge from my vagina. I think that it started when I was about 14 yrs.   Are there any risks in having sex while I'm pregnant?   Before I have sex, my boyfriend usually fingers me, but lately I have noticed that my vagina inside swells up on one side and is really painful which makes sex really painful. And after when I go to the toilet it stings, and my vagina is really red where it has swollen, what is wrong with me?   Can my boyfriend and I use a condom if we make love in the shower? If not, which kind of contraception can we use?   Can yeast infections and cystitis cause PID? Can they also cause the chronic form of PID if not treated?   Can you help I am a 16 year old and I have never had sex, but recently I took a course of antibiotics and I have developed this dreadful itch and a clumpy discharge. What's wrong with me? I can't go to my docto

Sex Matters - Frequently Asked Questions - 4

  I've been able to find answers to questions I had about HPV and cervical cancer. But what can the consequences be of having anal sex with the carrier of HPV?   If I am using a cream to treat a yeast infection, can I still receive oral sex?   If my boyfriend goes to the loo and gets sperm on his hand and then we hold hands can sperm be transferred to my hand? Then, if this is possible and I go to the loo and wipe myself can the sperm get on my vagina and make me pregnant?   Is anal sex safe without using any condoms? If not, what infections could get from it? Is there any ointment available to clean the anus before sex?   Is it OK to masturbate, and how often is normal?   Is it sexual desire that causes the production of hormones (androgens) that cause acne, or do you have to actually ejaculate?   I'm 17 and had sex 6 times, but I've never experienced an orgasm, why???   My 18-year-old guy and I went to have sex for the first time a couple weeks ago. He had

Sex Matters - Frequently Asked Questions - 3

  I am wondering because I haven't had my period yet at all and I am 17, could I still get pregnant if he didn't wear a condom?   I feel like I'm not having an orgasm when I have sex but at the same time I moan a lot. Could I be moaning from the the come-and-go pain that I feel? I also get short of breath after going on for a while. Do I just not know when I'm having an orgasm?   I had a baby five and a half months ago. I had no sex drive prior to giving birth, and still have no sexual desire. I love my partner very much but I think his patience is running short.Also whenever my partner and I attempt to have sex it feels very painful and I feel a burning stinging sensation. Is there something wrong with me?   I had sex for the first time and afterwards I was sore and bleeding , I felt a bit better but I still bled for about a week , then I had sex again and started bleeding again but I wasn't that sore. Is this normal or is something very wrong ??? Please hel

Sex Matters - Frequently Asked Questions - 2

  How do women masturbate? I'm just curious. Is there any infection that you can get from it?   How soon after a normal delivery of baby can a couple have sexual intercourse?   I am 11 years old. I think that I have a problem. When I rub up against the blankets in bed it feels really good. I told a friend about it and she said I was weird. Is there something wrong with me?   I am 21 years old. I used the medication Zoloft for control of Obsessional Compulsive Disorder for a few years. While I was taking the medication my sex drive seemed fine, although it did take me longer to orgasm. Since stopping it, I never feel like sex! Could the Zoloft have permanently effected my sex drive?   I am 23 years old and have been in a steady relationship with a girl that I love to death, for almost a year now. Our relationship is great apart from one or two things with our sex lives! We have sex daily because we like it, but I have never been able to cum inside my girls' vagina. Basi

Sex Matters - Frequently Asked Questions 1

  I am a 20 year old man and have had sex once in my life. I have been close to having sex many times. The first time I wasn't able to gain an erection because I was nervous. I have no trouble getting an erection by myself and now every time I go to have sex I am worried that I won't be able to get an erection. I have a girlfriend now and have talked about it a little but still feel uncomfortable. I have seen a counsellor but I still worry about it. Is there something wrong with me physically or mentally or what? Please help!!!!!! I have had enough of embarrassing moments please help me!   After I have ejaculated or had sex, I find it hard to gain another erection or become excited again. Is this normal, how can I boost my sexual performance and go again and again?   All my friends talk about first , second & third base but I don't know what it is could you please explain?   Before I have sex, my boyfriend usually fingers me, but lately I have noticed that my vag

VAGINAL FAQ

Why would I want to have a vaginal birth? What about rupture of the uterus? Pregnancy after Cesarean Section Labor after a Cesarean Section Specifications for VBAC Preparing for your VBAC Birth Alternatives with VBAC Resources for VBAC Emotions of VBAC Personal Experience with VBAC Clear, white vaginal discharge Itching and dry skin - is it yeast? Odorous vaginal discharge Recurring yeast infections - milky white discharge Boric acid as treatment for recurring yeast infections Resistance to Diflucan®? Clumpy vaginal discharge with white cells Yeast infections after natural or surgical menopause. Possible recurrent bacterial vaginosis Vaginal lump swelling, ? Bartholin gland Thick, odorless heavy vaginal discharge Vaginal dysplasia and pain Urethral versus vaginal discharge Chronic vaginal/vulvar itching Itching, feminine powder - can vaginal creams affect getting pregnant? What is a wet-prep test? I want to