GENTS SEX MATTER FAQ

1.   I am a 20 year old man and have had sex once in my life. I have been close to having sex many times. The first time I wasn't able to gain an erection because I was nervous. I have no trouble getting an erection by myself and now every time I go to have sex I am worried that I won't be able to get an erection. I have a girlfriend now and have talked about it a little but still feel uncomfortable. I have seen a counsellor but I still worry about it. Is there something wrong with me physically or mentally or what? Please help!!!!!! I have had enough of embarrassing moments please help me!
2.   After I cum, (usually after about 10 minutes) I seem to have a slow "leaking" of semenal fluid from my penis. Is this normal?
3.   After having sex with my girlfriend, I have some problems getting the foreskin of my penis to go back. I usually need to push it back manually. At first it took me quite a while but recently it has been quicker for me to do this. Is this normal? Is the forsekin supposed to go back by itself? What can I do to help it go back by itself? Should I seek medical attention?
4.   After the first round of ejaculation, blood came out of my boyfriend's penis.It stopped only after about 3 minutes, the flow was not very heavy. This is worrying me. Should he go for a check up as soon as possible?
5.   At what age do males need to get their penis checked out?
6.   Does a man need to change condoms for every penetration?
7.   Hello. I live in a country where boys get circumcised as babies. Since I wasn't born here and I'm not religious, I don't have circumcision. On one hand I don't want to have a circumcision because I heard that the feeling that you get from sex won't be as good. But on the other hand it's kind of difficult to live without circumcision in the place where everyone else does have. I was hoping to get some information about the difference between a circumcised and uncircumcised penis. What's good and what's bad about it? Also, I'm kind of worried about what what reaction I may get from a girl when she finds out I'm not circumcised. Does it make any difference to women at all?
8.   How can I protect myself from contracting the herpes virus, and what are the symptoms of the infection?
9.   I am 28 years old, and had sex five years ago. It was alright then. I masturbate and during the last couple of years I have noticed that when I go near a girl or start having sex my cum starts coming out of my penis. I also have difficulty in maintaining an erection. I am very worried that I will not be able to sustain an erection and my cum will start coming out before I even try to touch a woman. Is there is any way that will stop my cum coming out prematurely and will help me to sustain an erection. I am very worried and seek help and have not tried sex for 4 years.
10.   I am a man in my forties and although I can get an erection, It feels as if my head and my penis are disconnected! When I have sex I find that I cum too early. Is there any help for this kind of thing?
11.   I am an 18 year old boy and I have met a new guy recently. We are aware of safer sex but wondered about the safety of anal stimulation with fingers?
12.   I had sex with a guy as a one night stand without a condom, but he didn't ejaculate (cum). Could I still catch a disease?
13.   I have dated two muscle men, and they both have a very small penis. It will not get hard, yet they both are able to have an orgasm. What is this reason for the limp, small, penis?
14.   I have just started sleeping with this guy and I noticed that he has hundreds of tiny lumps in a line along the edge of the ridge at the top of his penis. What do you think they could be?
15.   I have noticed that my boyfriends semen is very thick and clotted. Does he need to have this checked and what could it mean?
16.   I have recently had dry sex with my boyfriend, meaning we had sex with our clothes still on. I was wondering if I should be worried about pregnancy or am I just over reacting??
17.   I was wondering if you can help me. My boyfriend is 18 years old and he ejaculates really fast. We can't have sex for long because of that and I was wondering if there is anything he could do to help? He doesn't want to take any types of pills so what can he do?
18.   I'm a male with a disabilty. I am in a wheel chair. I am not together with my girlfriend anymore and it is very difficult for me to masturbate on my own. Do you have any suggestions about what I could do?
19.   I'm a 16 yr old guy and my genital area is really itchy. So itchy that I've cut my self a little bit. I've never had sex before. Whats wrong?
20.   I'm only 15 but when I have an erection I can sometimes see a yellow cheesy substance. What should I do to get rid of it?? I haven't have sex before.
21.   I'm 14 turning 15 in August and my penis is much smaller than my mate's and I find this pretty embarrassing. Is there anything I can do or am I destined to have a small one for the rest of my life?
22.   Me and my boyfriend were having sex and we were just starting and he had a hard on, but all of a sudden he got limp and it wasn't even 10 seconds yet.... can you please tell me what happened or what you think might have happened?
23.   My 18-year-old guy and I went to have sex for the first time a couple weeks ago. He had a hard on for about 30 minutes till we decided it was time. He was ready and says he didn't feel that nervous, but when he put on the condom he went limp. He took it off and five minutes later he went stiff again. We tried again and the same thing happened. Now he's nervous it's going to happen again if we try. Is this normal?
24.   My 21-year-old guy worries about the size of his penis, though he's six-and-a-half inches (16cm). He has heard that taking testosterone will make his penis bigger. Is this true? If so, is his GP able to prescribe the medication for him?
25.   My boyfriend doesn't know where the clitoris is on a woman. Is there an easy way for me to help him locate it?
26.   My boyfriend has some pimple looking things on the shaft of his penis, sometimes if he squeezes one some pussy looking stuff like a pimple comes out. They don't go away if they are squeezed.
27.   My erection curves up and to the left, I believe this is Peyronie's disease from a childhood injury. Sex can be quite painful for me. Are there any treatments to straighten my erection or am I stuck with it this way? (because it is embarrassing as well)
28.   My husband had a traumatic brain injury a few years ago and has lost all interest in sex. His testosterone levels are fine. He will not take Viagra as he says you need the desire to take it – how can we fix this?
29.   My problem is I wasn't able to urinate. I got some tests done that showed that I have a "tight bladder". My doctor put me on the drug Flomax. She told me that when I ejaculate it may go into my bladder. Is this harmful? Will it be like this as long as I'm on the drug? Also, when I have sex, the sensation or orgasm isn't as strong when I cum this way. This is a problem for me. The doctor said I may be on this drug indefinitely. I really don't want my ejaculate to go into my bladder every time... Is this just temporary?
30.   One of my testicles is larger than the other, is that normal I am 19?
31.   Our baby boy is due any time now and my partner and I are talking about circumcising our son. My husband is circumcised, but we wonder what the current thinking is.
32.   Over the years I have become aware that when I ejaculate (cum) in a womans vagina they feel a stinging sensation afterwards. Is there something wrong with me or with them? Do you have an answer for my burning question??
33.   Recently my husband and I had sex, and immediately afterwards he went to the bathroom. While he was there, he felt dizzy and fell to the ground. Any idea why this happened?
34.   Usually when I wake up my foreskin is pulled back but its quite easy to retract it. Is this phimosis??
35.   What does normal cum look like and what's in it? Mine is thick and clumpy, is this OK? How do I know if I am normal!
36.   What does the term 'sexual health' mean?
37.   What food can be eaten to make semen taste better? Are there any foods that should be avoided?
38.   When I masturbate I usually have an orgasm quite quickly. I'm scared that if I have sex with a female I'm going to orgasm too early. Is there any way I can delay my orgasm?
39.   Where can my husband go to find out if he has a healthy or low sperm count?